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Saying no: a hate-love relationship

Saying no

My relationship with the word no is a difficult one. It’s kind of a love-hate relationship. In some situations, I say no way too fast and in others, I almost never say it when I actually should. Saying no makes clear you don’t want (to do) something. But sometimes the word no is also used because you fear the unknown. That’s my love-hate relationship. I say no (too fast) when I’m scared. I should say no more, but don’t because I’m scared? Are you still with me? Here goes…

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